America has been somewhat shaken by the events of the past couple of weeks, and many Americans have been forced to re-evaluate their country of residence.

Despite the experience of some people who want to move to France, but find it simply too difficult and overwhelming (such as in CNN’s recent article Too Much Grief, Not Enough Joy) there is always an intense interest for US Citizens to move to this beautiful country.

France is extremely welcoming to American immigrants, and has always been attractive to Americans because of their love for France, especially Paris, which can be attributed to many cultural, historical, and experiential factors such as the heritage of Art and Literature, French Fashion, the romance of the jazz musicians who made it in Paris and France in the 1920’s and 30’s; the gastronomy – who can resist French cuisine ? – the general laissé faire attitude to life which is embodied by the café and bistro culture, the romanticism of Paris and general shared history between these two countries.

So now a whole new swathe of Americans are seriously considering moving to Europe, and especially France, where there are many advantages for US citizens, probably the most attractive being the Tax Treaty, which has been cited as the best tax agreement in Europe, and probably the world, so France is seen as a tax haven for US immigrants, and is unique to the USA. There’s also the small matter that most things, from property to medication, are roughly half the price in France !

So why did life in France became a ‘nightmare’ for Joanna and Ed?

Adapting to life in France comes with its challenges. Integrating into French society requires a blend of cultural understanding, language skills, and an open mind. So how can one successfully make the transition and feel at home in the land of wine and baguettes? Here are my 8 top tips: 

1. Master the Language (Even If Imperfectly)

While many French people speak English, especially in larger cities like Paris, Lyon, or Nice, making an effort to speak French is essential. Learning the language opens doors to deeper connections with locals and embrace mistakes! French people will appreciate your effort more than your accuracy.

2. Understand French Social Etiquette

The French value politeness and formality in social interactions. Adopting their customs is key to fitting in:  

• Kisses, not hugs: Learn about “la bise”—the traditional cheek kiss—and when it’s appropriate.  
• Greeting: Always say “Bonjour” (or “Bonsoir” in the evening) when entering shops or engaging with people. Adding “Madame” or “Monsieur” shows added politeness. 
  

3. Adopt a French Lifestyle

Anglophones are often struck by the differences in work-life balance and daily habits in France. Adjusting to these cultural norms can enhance your experience. 

• Respect Sunday traditions: Sundays in France are typically reserved for rest, family, and leisurely activities. Many shops and businesses close, so plan accordingly.  
• Enjoy the slower pace: The French prioritize quality over quantity—whether it’s savoring a meal, spending time with family, or taking vacations.  
• Shop like a local: Visit open-air markets for fresh produce, meats, and cheeses. Most towns have weekly markets that are both social and practical.  
  

4. Understand French Bureaucracy

French administration can feel overwhelming for newcomers. From setting up utilities to obtaining residency permits, patience is your best ally.  

Pro tips: 

• Gather and organize documents meticulously. The French love paperwork, and you may need to provide copies of everything from your birth certificate to proof of address multiple times.  
• Consider hiring a relocation expert or consulting online forums to navigate the process.  
  

5. Expand Your Social Circles

Building friendships in France takes time, but it’s essential for integration.  

• Join local clubs and associations: Whether it’s a hiking group or a wine-tasting club, shared interests help bridge cultural gaps.  
• Connect with expat communities: While making French friends is vital, fellow expats can offer practical advice and emotional support.  
• Participate in local events: Festivals, village fairs, and neighborhood gatherings are great ways to meet people and immerse yourself in the culture.
  

6. Appreciate French Values

France’s cultural identity is deeply rooted in its values of liberty, equality, and fraternity. Understanding these principles can help you integrate.

7. Navigate Culture Shock with an Open Mind

It’s natural to encounter differences that may feel frustrating or bewildering. Embrace these moments as learning opportunities. 

Common surprises for new residents :

• Shops closing for long lunch breaks or holidays.  
• A less hurried approach to customer service.  
• The French tendency for candid critique (which is often meant constructively).

Adopting the mindset of a curious traveler will help you appreciate the quirks of French culture rather than resist them.  

8. Celebrate Your Wins

Integration is a journey, not a sprint. Celebrate milestones like your first solo conversation in French, cooking a perfect “coq au vin” or being mistaken for a local! 

By approaching your move with curiosity and patience, you can transform from an American expat into a well-adjusted part of French society. Soon, you’ll find yourself enjoying the rhythm of French life—whether it’s savouring a morning croissant, strolling along cobblestone streets, or toasting to new friendships with a glass of Bordeaux.  

Bienvenue en France!